FIDELITY 
Arjuna’s surrender is loyal to Krishna alone. He says, ‘नहि प्रपश्यामि ममापनुद्याद् यत्व्छोकम्’ –  ‘Nahi prapashyãmi mamãpanudyãd yachchhokam’ –  ‘O Lord! I do not see anyone else  who can rid me of my grief other  than you. You alone are my saviour.’ (Gita  2.8) Thus Parth’s surrender  is completely and specifically devoted to Shri  Krishna.
Sorrow comes to everyone. Arjuna too. But the only  difference is that  the majority of people resort to a variety of different  shelters to  free themselves from that misery. For them, Bhagwan is just one of   those many shelters. There is no committed belief that God alone is the  support  and the basis of one’s happiness. Some such unfortunate and  miserable people  write books about how to become happy. They rattle  their brains to find the  secrets of happiness. Some resort to  astrologers claiming to know the future.  Some of the more superstitious  resort to exorcists, black magic or witchcraft.  Some of the more  gullible surrender themselves to the intelligent who only have  worldly  knowledge, and willingly do just as they say. Some, however, try to get   by on the basis of their own experience. But Arjuna has not resorted to  any of  these. He has done only one thing – he has made the manifest  Bhagwan his guru.  He has devotedly surrendered to him and him alone. He  is willing to put the  utmost trust in what he says, and to faithfully  do as he says.
Let us remember Dhritarashtra for a moment, since all this  news is in  fact being related for Dhritarashtra to hear. Consider for a moment   that on hearing ‘Shishyasteham’ Dhritarashtra’s thoughts must have taken  a  turn. He must have had to recalculate all his projections. Although  blind, he  must have clearly seen control of the situation slipping from  his hands.
In order to understand Arjuna further, we should also take a  special  look at Duryodhan. A key difference already separates Duryodhan and   Arjuna at this point. In reality, both are understanding people. Both  have  introspected on their lives. Both have seen their own flaws. Just  like Arjuna  has recognized his flaws, Duryodhan says about himself, ‘जानामि घर्मं न च मे प्रवृत्ति र्जानामि अघर्मं न च मे निवृत्तिः।’ – ‘Jãnãmi dharmam na cha me pravruttirjãnãmi adharmam na cha me  nivruttihi’ –  ‘I know what dharma is, but I cannot abide by it. I know that  adharma  is, but I cannot revoke myself from it.’ Thus, both are well acquainted   with their own situations. Yet, Arjuna differs in knowing what he  should do.  ‘In order to rid myself of my flaws, I have to make manifest  Shri Krishna my  guru. I have to take his refuge.’ He knows this is the  path that will uplift  from his sorrowful state and revive his  strength.
In this way, Arjuna is able to take a unique step forward.  He can  understand and accept the true means to progress. He is able to crush   his ego. This has become impossible for Duryodhan. He cannot crush his  ego. He  cannot surrender to anyone. In fact, he has been crushed by his  own ego. That  is why he has shown his incapability in matters of  abiding by dharma and  retreating from adharma. He says, ‘केनापि देवेन हृदिस्थितेन यथा नियुक्तोऽस्मि तथा करोमि’ – ‘Kenãpi devena hrudisthitena yathã niyukto’smi  tathã karomi.’ Meaning, ‘I will do whatever I feel is right.’ Thus he has  locked the door to his own edification.
Arjuna’s actions make one thing clear. Some people say that  to have a  guru is a type of dependency. It is foolish to put one’s trust in him   and ignore one’s own intelligence. It is not necessary to abide by  someone  else’s experiences. One should move forward on the basis of  one’s own intellect  and experience. There is no need to have a guru. To  keep a guru shows one’s  weakness of mind and lack of intelligence.  With such beliefs, they do not  surrender to anyone. They do not accept  anyone as their guru. 
A typical word used for someone who has no guru is naguru.  These  naguru people are like stray beings. They are deprived of a guru’s   expertise and reservoir of knowledge. They never gain a mature  understanding.  For this very reason, when the renowned devotee Goro the  potter of Maharashtra  checked Namdev by tapping him on the head, as if  he was checking a pot, he  said, ‘Nãmã tu kacchã’ – ‘Namdev, you are  incomplete.’ Why? Because, Namdev was  arrogant about his own knowledge.  He believed himself to be learned and wise,  and so had not yet made  anyone his guru. Goro the potter said, “Namdev! You may  be learned, but  as you are still arrogant you will remain incomplete until you   surrender to a guru. Therefore, make an experienced person your guru and   surrender your arrogance at his feet. Namdev understood his mistake.  He decided  to surrender to a guru and in this way became the disciple  of an experienced  guru named Visoba Khechar. (Kalyan – Bhakta Charitam  issue).
If a genuinely aspiring disciple surrenders to a true guru,  we  definitely find that even if the person was totally ignorant or immature   before accepting discipleship, by surrendering to an experienced and  wise guru,  faithfully listening to his precepts and sincerely trying to  abide by them, the  disciple is, in a short period of time, able to  grasp great secrets of  spiritual and mundane knowledge, which are  unattainable even after many years  of effort on one’s own.
In fact, the greatest secret of our sanatan tradition is  this  guru-disciple relationship. Since ancient times we can see this  principle  echoed in precepts like ‘तद् विज्ञानार्थं स गुरुमेवाभिगत्व्छेत्’ – ‘Tad vignãnãrtham sa gurumevãbhigachchhet’ (Mundaka  Upanishad 1.2.12), or ‘तस्माद् गुरुं प्रपद्येत’ – ‘Tasmãd gurum  prapadyeta’  (Bhãgvat). Therefore, you will never find a great rishi of India  who  was a naguru. Our great rishis were examples of ideal disciples.
Here also, in the Gitã, Arjuna is such an example for us.  With the  words, ‘Shishyasteham shãdhi mãm tvãm prapannam’ it is as though he is   inspiring all nagurus to become disciples. He is teaching those without a   refuge to take one. He is warning us so that we do not become like  stray  persons. He is tapping us and cautioning us not to remain  incomplete. He is  saving us from being nagurus. He is making us  conscious of the more subtle  aspects of surrendering to a guru. He has  enlightened the path of sincere  surrendering.
These are the unique virtues of Arjuna’s discipleship and  surrender.